FAQs
What you get
What's in the set
- Two notebooks, one for each of you, in black and purple
- Open prompts on each of the 51 conversations in the guide, across pregnancy and your baby's first year
- Soon-To-Be Parents companion notebooks: 108 pages each, 6 by 9 inches, perfect bound
What's inside
51 conversations, including:
- The basics: How will we budget for a baby?
- Pregnancy and birth: Who will be in the delivery room?
- The village: When will people meet the baby?
- Eat, poop, sleep, repeat: Where will the baby sleep?
- Education, health & development: How will we handle screen time in early childhood?
- The existential: What aspects of our upbringing will we replicate, and what will we avoid?
- Us: How will we share parental and household duties?
…see the full table of contents:
Which one is right for you?
| Companion Notebooks | Paperback + Notebooks | Couple Set | |
|---|---|---|---|
| A notebook each, to think it through first | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| All 51 conversations | No | Yes | Yes |
| Room for both of you to write your answers, side by side | No | No | Yes |
Do we need the guide too?
Yes. The notebooks follow the guide chapter for chapter, with open prompts on each of its 51 conversations. Paperback + Notebooks and the Couple Set both include it.
Why two notebooks?
They're sold as a pair, because the whole point is two people answering on their own.
Using it
Why Daisy's Guide?
The hardest things to say out loud are usually the ones you haven't finished thinking through yet.
The companion notebooks give you both somewhere to do that thinking first. They follow the guide chapter for chapter, with open prompts on each of the 51 conversations, covering the things you'd hesitate to bring up cold. The vetoes. The worries. The name you'd be quietly sad to lose.
Then you talk. And the conversation goes differently when you both show up already knowing how you feel, instead of working it out mid-sentence.
How it works
Take a notebook each
Answer the open prompts on your own, chapter by chapter with the guide
Then talk it through together
Ordering
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